Patience and trust

A friend,who is generally impatient, was waiting for a message revert from someone close..obviously we dont wait for people who dont matter much.My mind asks me, why this change?? Why does a person so impatient wait so patiently for someone's reply. A reply that may come or not come. But seeing the determination of that friend a thought crossed my mind, Why do people wait?? A person can wait only if he has patience. And patience is a very very rare quality, and hence ghostly!!

Patience is a very positive virtue..helps one to develop beyond his capacity. It makes wonders happen.And pays real well. Okay if it doesn't, it simply means you still need to wait for some more time! It helps not only to survive through relations, but also through lives.

There may come incidents which act as hurdles.

 Human mind is not programmed to be patient..it is just given the potential but it has to develop the necessary software..usually a tailor made remedy is available but not always guarantees favourable result.One has to work hard towards it.Keeping yourself busy in other thoughts, activities, being surrounded by people, not considering the revert action as an important one...all these helps...But according to me..what matters most is, Trust !! Trust that the feeling , the relation, the importance of communication...is Mutual !!

Only trust can bring the desired patience.When you have been worthy of this trust by someone in you..it becomes mandatory to not break it. For that gives birth to elements like hurt, hatred and want of revenge. 

As it is said if both are holding the rubberband from to ends...one shouldn't leave it or it hurts the other hand.

Trust and Patience are two vital aspects for a Relation to survive.